Domination Phone Sex
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Some PSO’s think that Domination Phone Sex is all about forcing a guy into doing things he doesn’t want to do, using harsh commands, and vulgar language. It seems that being abusive, bitchy or crude has been confused with the true essence and the Art of Domination, and that makes me a little sad sometimes. But I know that’s just the nature of this particular venue or lifestyle, not everyone who jumps in the pool actually knows how to swim! LOL Once you wade through the wannabe’s, fakes and imitators, you’ll find the true Phone Sex Mistress you’ve been seeking, the one who understands Domination isn’t about force.
So, you may be asking, if Domination is not about forcing someone, then what is it about? Let me share a little bit of my personal philosophy on BDSM and the D/s lifestyle. The best relationships between Dominants and submissives are based on the understanding that both are equal partners in the relationship, having equal and shared responsibility for keeping the relationship healthy, and for maintaining open communication. The inequality comes from a consensual choice made by the two partners in which one partner, the Dominant assumes control or power, and the other partner, gives up control or power. This is called a Power Exchange, which can be considered Total as in a 24/7 lifestyle relationship, or temporary which exists only during the time of the session.
That being said, often a Domination Phone Sex session will include some type of forced phone sex scenario, but it’s kind of like rape, you can’t really rape the willing you know! Forced scenarios are sometimes referred to as “consensual nonconsent”, meaning that the submissive has given his/her consent to be “forced” to do certain things. If you listen to the conversation between a Mistress and her slave during a humiliation phone sex session, you may think it is abusive or find it cruel, but in fact, many submissives crave humiliation and verbal, not to mention physical abuse. It’s a form of love making, even though to the vanilla onlookers, it seems to be something quite different.
Being a Phone Sex Mistress takes far more than reading a few stories, or putting on a bitchy attitude. It takes a deep understanding of the nature power and control, and the ability to accept that control from another person and use it to make both of your fantasies cum true. It’s not just about pleasing your Mistress, though that is certainly a part of it. But like any other relationship both partners have to be satisfied or the relationship will end.
I could go on and on about my philosophies and thoughts on BDSM and Domination Phone Sex, but I think this is enough for now. Let me end by saying, I’m a Phone Sex Mistress with lots of real experience both as a Professional Dominatrix and a Lifestyle Dominant with a 24/7 submissive slave boy of my own. When you’re looking for a woman who knows it takes more than being a bitch to really control a man, give me a call.
Mistress Minx @ 1-877-417-9298
